Life's tough

Life's tough...

It is indeed tough for us to go through life, especially when we seem to facing problem which looks like never ending. Normally, those kind of problem revolves around family, rather than outside problems. Whether we like or dislike someone in our family because of their behaviour, actions, words, etc. That eventually will become our problem somehow in our later year.

Whether we realize it or not, the family which at first supporting us when we're in the earlier year of our life, will slowly start to nag us. And I just realize this during writing. That even when we're still a kid, our family even nag us by saying we HAVE TO learn not to pee ourselves, not do this and that. Well, it is for our good, but it still nagging, isn't it?

And then when we're at school, our family, our parents in specific, will push us to WORK HARDer for us to be able to achieve some rank in almost everything we do. But in reality, it's kinda hard to do because of all the competition, right? Then moving up to another phase in our life, whether we like it or not, they will start to ask about our aim in life, whether we want to work here and there, or do something useful rather than being a potato bag. Also in our relationship matter too. A lil bit this and that from them will always accompany us everywhere.

But then, we always think that: it's a restrain! It is my own life and I just want to do it like I want to! I'm tired of being asked this and that! and so on and so on... And for some people, their family is no better than that. Some families are just sort of thinking when you're finished your study, graduates etc and working, then it means it is your time to pay back... And I know some people who encounter such situation.

But thinking those thing will make the person fed up, stressed out and  even frustrated when they can't do anything about their situation that will becoming more miserable than it supposed to be. Because they have to think about this and that, that they are not supposed to think of before the time. Some will accept it as it is, while some will have a wistful thinking. Which one are you?

Life is fast, but is you don't stop once a while and look around, then you'll definitely miss it, the meaning of life it is. It looks life it is tough. But once we looked around, we will see each every detail of our life. That we were able to overcome our problem, no matter how big or small it is. That we've been battered in our life, but we end up as we are, getting tougher each and every time we fell down. That we, without realizing it, facing the same problem over and over again with the stronger intensity which makes us think that we're not finish with one, yet while in fact we're through the old one and start with a new one.

Fear not! You're not the only one who are facing problem in this world. Everyone has it and anyone that you meet, perhaps, have the same problem as you do. So you're not alone. Stop pitying yourself. Dust yourself up each time you fell, and face your problem head on. No matter what, or who it is. You are your own master, with the exception of God of course, so nothing can bring you down except yourself.

So.. my dear best friend, stop thinking too much and start to take a deep breath once a while, while enjoying the scene in your life roll itself in front of you. Don' t and never think that your problem is bigger than who you are. Life's tough alright... but it is NEVER tougher than you are, if you don't allow it to be...

Hope this will soothe you a lil bit since I'm not able to soothe you myself. Cheer up, lift up your glass and say, "to everything that happened and all that will come"