May 2012

Hey, I'm back after a while

Days seems to go back very fast these days, but very slow too at the same time. When you're working toward a goal, the days are running with you, if not even faster. After you kinda achieve it, the days are just relaxing itself and doesn't even bother you who want to make things faster too. Also, when you're waiting for something to happen, the days just... stretch itself to what looks like an infinity and beyond.

Well... I'm just trying to fill in the blank for this month's end as I promised myself.

Ciao for now.. Too many things on mind, but I can't seem to express it in a good way.

I'm Sorry and I love You

Provided that my status intrigued some people of the usage of those 2 sentences, i put an assumption that most people agree with what i was saying. "I'm sorry" and "I love you" are two words that supposed to switch place in term of saying it. It is really hard to say "I'm sorry" when we're supposed to, and it's very easy to say "I love you" when you're not supposed to.

As a child, we are often taught by our parents to say "I'm sorry" when we're at fault. But as we grow old, those words become harder and harder to say in appropriate moment. Experience said that it becomes harder when the one being faulted is our loved ones. Why? I think, it's because we know we're hurting the other party and feeling very guilty to even say I'm sorry. Perhaps because we know that the word itself won't sufficient enough to cure the already hurting heart.

But the feeling will gnawed you from inside and kills you slowly, that the longer you say it, the harder it will become. So, when is the right time to say it then? There is no exact time for it. For me, as long as you said it, no matter how hard it is, you will eventually be forgiven. At least, God will see your sincerity. Well, advice is, if you don't want to say sorry, then don't do things you will be sorry for. Easy to say, very hard to do indeed.

As for the other saying, we're often to say "I love you" too easily. I'm not saying it's not good to say it often to express yourself, but please bear in mind if that person is worthy of that word or not. God want us to love one another as brothers and sisters, yes He did. But most of the times, we make the word itself sound very cheap. When you're saying it to our family, it will become treasure. But to other people? We never know. It might become treasure, or we're just laying our heart on the table to be slaughtered upon. It's just a mere bet.

I just can suggest this for the "love" word. It is indeed such a beautiful word, a powerful one you might say. But that is also a double-edged sword. If you want to say it, please do so. But make sure the other person does feel the same in order for you not hurt yourself. There is no other devastating feeling than loving someone who doesn't love you equally.

These two sentences can have big impact. When someone are at fault at you and say sorry, just tell them you love them to forgive them. And when someone love you dearly, tell them you love them too. And when you're at fault, never hesitate to say sorry before it gets harder to.

That's all for now.

Have a nice day.